Saturday 27 February 2010

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Untuk kesekian kalinya aku x leh amik gambo lg...sebabnya....henpon ai dok kat workshop lg...apsal ler Pak Cik ni lama sgt nak baiki npon aku tu...dulu masa hantaq kat anak dia si Farid tu 2-3 ari dah siap dah.....hermmm....byk event yg best2 aku missed....p mkn kat Pak Hainan ari tu pon dah missed...ni aku beli crocs baru tau...pink lg...x leh nak update gambaq lg....nak update pic kat FB pon terbantut.....asik dok kene rambu ngan adik aku jer...pic x update...dulu aku jer laju dok update bagai....kamera mana?..rusak weiiiiii...gambaq suma bertukaq jadik ijo...awat eh? masuk angin ka...ayaq ka...apa ka...haih.....kamer TU MENYEBAB ADIK AKU HANGIN SATU WHEN SUMA PIC KAT LAM KAMERA TU TETIBE ILANG.....about 1,000 pcs jugak ler....mahap yer adikku...x dirancang begitu dol.....
Esok kena keja wei....keja ngan company naga dum dum cha neh mmg tadek ler cuti Maulidur Rasul ke ape ker.....Raya Haji pon ko kene amik cuti tahunan but aku bernasib baik last year RAye ari jumaat...alngkan aku mmg cuti Jumaat...huahuahua.....Keja Ahad pun nak buat apa sgt....Gov suma off....misti buhsan tahap gaban ni sok nih....Smalam pon Fariza kebusanan coz x dak call...sape nak call sume org cuti weih......haihhh yoooooooo!!!!!!!!
Lagi aku penin dok pikir nak bayaq road tax keta lg (actually dah postponed since Nov 2009)....utang PB lg....sewa bulan ni mmg byk ler coz Aida dah kene transfer ker putrajaya....Makanya sewa kene kongsi ber2 jer ngan Enul....Azabnye aku bln nih....ada kenduri lg...Kenduri Lutfi..arti tu dah promise nak kasik bunga telor kat dia...boleh kot tp terpakse ler carik yg murah2 jer kot....but he seems likes kesempitan wang ler...x sampai lak kalo x kasik angpau....camner nih....berapa nak kasik eh?

Sunday 7 February 2010

Facebook does Help - SANTAU does KiLL

Nak balik tp Hujan...so lepak dpn Pc Fariza jap...suddenly teringat cerita Iffah about one of our dormmate dulu...actually aku x der laa berapa kenal sgt dia tu but we used to stay in the same dorm..lepas tu she moved to sekolah ape tah..then aku pon blah p Sek Pendang...
Iffah dapat cari aku through FB...last time we met was 2 yrs ago...tu pun sama2 dok tggu our parent kat ICU at Hospital Sultanah Bahiyah....She informed me her dad meninggal a day after my mom passed away....takziah kat hang Iffah...the sad thing is...ayah dia meninggal because of SANTAU....my mom passed away sbb mmg sakit but her dad ternea buatan...that was very sad wei....she has miscarriage twice....whatever it is...i lways pray the best for you friend....
Berbalik kat cite mula2 td..Member kami tu named Mardziah...da meninggal dah..kena SANTAU jugak....hermm.....getting married May last year and meniggal 2 months later....not a good story....nak kontek MAs pon x leh...her number ade lam npon Samsung aku...npon tu ada kat w/shop lg...hampes....Mas bila hang nak jaga jalan kat A/s ni wei...aku nak amik no phone hang....( she's JPJ Officer)......
Rindu pulak kat depa2 n ih...x tau ler bila nak jupa lg...tadek pic ler nak upload kat cni...album suma ada kat kg...Chinese New Year nnt balik godak2 tgk...hehehehe...cam best jer kan....well...ade kontek Sarah B...hermm...but she's in Shah Alam ler...Sarah A pon kat sana jugak...
Story nyer yang bule ada Sarah A & B ni...off course laa sbb ada 2 org Sarah in a dorm...so lekat ler Sarah A and B sampai ler sekarang n ih....haih....kalau ada reunion pon best gak....Marni, Nurul, K.chik, hermm..sape lg eh...aku dah lupe wei...hampeh..

7 Mistakes Single Women Make

I want to have this book.....





1. We feel entitled.

Gottlieb: “Women try to be good friends to each other. We say, ‘You deserve this, you’re so great! You’re such a good catch! Any man would be lucky!’ [Men don’t say that to each other.] We are good catches, but we also are human and we’re not perfect and somebody’s going to have to put up with us for the rest of his life. And we forget. My dating coach said, write down all the reasons a guy would not want to date you. At first I didn’t think I had that many things, because you think you’re a pretty good catch. He said, what you think of as quirky, endearing, and cute, is really annoying to someone else. But he would love you so much that he would overlook that. And you need to overlook things in him. Everybody has to compromise.”

2. We think we have unlimited options.
Gottlieb: “You walk into a store and you know you want a sweater and it has to go with this outfit and it has to be this color, and you’d like to be on sale. You find something great, but you wonder if there’s something better out there, so you keep searching. In the end, after three more weeks of searching for the perfect sweater—was it so much better than the one you could have bought originally? Whether it’s with men or sweaters…if you just think you have unlimited options for the rest of your life, of course you’ll keep looking, who wouldn’t?”

3. We’re judgmental.
Gottlieb: “The guys I interviewed for the book said women judge them so much. Women gave me 300 reasons they wouldn’t go on a second date with a guy, and men gave 3. When guys are ready for that stage of life, they find someone who is good enough that they’re totally in love with—but that person may not seem to the outside world to be as appealing in superficial ways—maybe she’s not as accomplished or funny as the last girl. Whatever he sees in her, he does. Guys don’t sit and micro-analyze a woman the way a woman would with a man. He knows she’s not as hot as the last girl he dated, but that’s okay. She’s hot enough.”

4. We’re pickier than men.
Gottlieb: “With online dating, we judge based on objective criteria (height, sports nut), rather than subjective (attraction), which you can’t judge until you meet the person. When you read other people’s profiles, don’t make assumptions or rule them out because of one thing they wrote. You can fall in love with a guy who wrote that he likes Madonna, but you can’t fall in love with a guy who isn’t kind.”

5. We go for the alpha males.
Gottlieb: “In cities where you find a lot of really ambitious, Type A, driven people, like in NYC and L.A., with the entertainment business and Wall Street…you get a lot of ‘maximizers’ [people who keep looking over their shoulder for something better]. Maximizer women date maximizer men. They will be just as picky in a bad and unhealthy way. The men who are actually available and wanting commitment and who are smart and funny and cute—maybe one guy is a little bit shorter, so he’s not getting the women. Maybe he’s not smooth initially or in big groups, but he is one-on-one. These are the kind of people who when you’re 35, 45, 55, that you’ll be happy with when you’re married, and the guy who is super charming at the party and has the crowd of women around him, maybe he’s not going to make as good of a husband. Maybe he’s not going to call you back. That guy is going to be judgmental and picky, and who wants that?”
6. We think, “I love me more.”
Gottlieb: “We don’t need a man. We don’t. But if you want one and you go around with this attitude of ‘I love me more,’ [what Samantha said in the Sex and the City movie, after she dumps a hot guy who helped her through cancer (and female audiences cheered)] well, a relationship is about reciprocity, so you need to love yourself and you need to be able to have some selflessness and love somebody else. Women take Samantha’s message as really empowering. If you don’t want to be alone—maybe Samantha does—that’s a dangerous message.”

7. We think he needs to share every interest.
Gottlieb: “We say, ‘I’m a writer, but he doesn’t read! I’m creative.’ But people can be creative in different ways, and the fact that he doesn’t read the same books that you do, well, maybe he wants someone who he can talk about the baseball game with but you’re not that person. The guy doesn’t have to be one-stop shopping. You’re not going to share every single interest, and that’s okay. The shared interest should be, Do we want the same things out of life? Do we both want to be married right now?”
credit to: Erin Meanley, Single-ish, Glamour Magazine, on Thu Feb 4, 2010 8:42am PST
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